are you talking to him when he is drunk or sober? I bet you can get cheap help from craig's list.what would he say to that? his mother deserved a real kick in the pants. I am so sorry you have to go through this agony. My father did zilch. I found out that my father sold our house when my uncle moved to hamden because it was too far away to come over and fix things. My father did make scrabbled eggs and coffee.
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bobby