It is so common for those kind of things to happen when a family member is dying or has died... sometimes one person gets unfairly victimized. I'm so sorry it happened to you

It probably happened to you because Myra protested the loudest, and it was easier for your mother to placate her to stop the fighting, and not because of anything to do with what you did, or who you are

I think some of us will always be working through this kind of ****. I'm glad that you were able to vent about what happened back then. Your family was so abusive to you