You wouldn't believe the places I cleaned when I was in home care...

You have been very generous with her, have cleaned before she has come, and have allowed her plenty of time to herself when she should have been cleaning in the past. You have been on friendly terms, so it was rude and disrespectful for her to say that to you. It is her job to clean for you, not your job to clean for her.

You can ask for another housekeeper if she leaves the next time she comes, or makes remarks like that again.


I'm sorry that you are having a hard time, Bobby

I'm glad that you are trying to do more exercises to keep up your strength. Have you considered asking your PCP or neuro to write a script so that the PTs can come to your apartment to work with you? You are "home bound" since you don't drive, cannot walk far, and rarely leave the apartment now... so you should qualify for those services.