THANK YOU. i really was. i had a lot of empathy and unconditional love. the kids would tell me their secrets. one little girl had a very controlling mother and what the girl would do is lock the mother's door in the middle of the night to assert some control. I didn't squeal and just hoped there wouldn't be an emergency. Another boy with a controlling wonderful mother would hide her keys. I finally stopped seeing him and only saw her and he improved and she improved. He finally told her about the keys and she laughed. I was unorthodox. anther boy I told him he was bright but not to worry since he had too many family problems to deal with. I told him he would catch up later. He heard me