Lots of sadness
I know you know that it is not your fault and that you did nothing
wrong.
I am saying it again.
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This quote is from Ted Roosevelt but it is not corny.
It is pretty much what most of us do:
Do what you can, with what you have, where you are. Theodore Roosevelt
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Do what you can, with what you have, where you are. - Theodore Roosevelt - BrainyQuote
My mother used to say some version of that.
I am not sure that this is Oprah but it kind of works (Maybe Maya Angelou):
“When you know better...You do better.”
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Somedays I worry that I am not doing my best.
BUT that is because days and years vary.
I do what I can.
Somedays I cannot do anything and so I don't.
Somedays I push myself a little or a lot.
I suppose I have low expectations but
on work days I feel like I did great if I
got dressed and look mostly ok
got out of the door on time and drove safely.
Anyway, I do not want to derail what you are trying to say here.
I too have been rethinking my decisions and trying to figure
out where I took the wrong turn (or two).
I narrowed down a few choices but I was against strong forces
so those were good decisions at the time to save myself.
Sorry that I may have gotten off track.
M