When I was a home health aide I cleaned a ton of really messy apartments and was still on really friendly terms with the clients. I just did the best I could.

I do like how concerned she is about you. I think she has your best interests at heart and I think she's been giving you good advice, but she shouldn't be forcing anything on you

I'm glad that you are trying to be safer when you are sleeping.

Congratulations on your weight loss!