Eva, you have an amazing strength of will. Your ability to stay the course is something all who know you undoubtedly take pride in. I know I feel proud to know you when I know all that you have faced and all you continue to face. Worry not over someone contacting you, the old ways are gone along with the societal norms. If you will, live for the moment and enjoy what comes your way as and when it does, be it fleeting or lengthy. Remember it is your life to live as you choose. No one passes judgment in the way they did of days gone old. So long as you uphold your own values and morals, God will hold you in his ever light.