Hi, Kay,


Changing the passwords probably solved the issue. I hope so.

Is most of the help that you mention re laundry? Is it possible to
do smaller loads by going twice a week instead of once a week?
Is there a group/organization (an app?) that would pick up your laundry, wash and dry and bring it home for you?

Do you qualify for more assistance from your state department of whatever?

Do get him to help you with what you need. He will step up.

I do not know how to stop someone from drinking and I can only imagine that
living with a drinker makes daily life hard.

We have tons of drinkers in my family and my father is one of them. It's not good for him.
One of my brothers drinks too, but we are all relieved that it's legal and that he stays out of jail.

M