Yosemitelady,

From what you have said in the past, it does not appear that he is interested in trying to understand what is happening with his brain and behaviors. He will never see improvements until he decides to learn about and understand his outbursts. Meds may help but learning to understand the early signs of melt down is important. Others around him need to also learn how to recognize these situations.

I live with this. I've tried to walk away and people respond that I am being rude. If I don't finish walking away and stay and explode, it is all my fault. Can't win. See how frustrating it is?

The medical term for some is Adrenal Cortical Hyperfunction. It is a hair trigger flight, fight, or freeze response.

I carry slips of paper in my wallet to give to authority figures when they get overbearing or there is a potential (TSA at the airport). It says I have a brain injury and may over-react to tense situations by getting loud. Please help me.

I do best working alone. Less risk.