I'm not the one to tell you of their surgery experiences, but your story is familiar to all of us. I wanted this thread to get bumped up and not disappear so that one of our many "surgery people" can advise. Also, look at the stickies at the top of the page for further information.
Welcome to our forum and although I'm sorry you have to be here, it's a great place for information and caring people.

phoebe