Its not been 2 weeks yet so its still kind of new. I know its going to
take a while. So I'm just taking it day by day.

I can be very thankful for my sister's husbands because I know how much
my mom and sister's had to depend on them to help. Just for everyday
things sometimes.

We got word last night, after things calmed down my last sister, will
try to ask for the weekend off that we are all coming together. This
is a big thing for her. She never really wants to do things like that.
She just wants to maybe be off.

I honestly think it has always been her way to cope with things. So this
is good. I think she will join us if she can for celebrating mom's birthday
but not sure. Only Karla has commented so far that she thinks this
is a good idea. Or would like this. Diana it will be the last minute I'm
pretty sure, she is just that not sure at times what she wants to do.
Its also going to be according to whether she has something she finds
she wants to do. Which is okay.

My one brother in law has done things like car maintenance, lawn care, fixing things in the house. And anything else my mom might ask for for almost 37 years and +.
THe other two have as much as they could for 37+ years for one, and 10+ the other.

SO its been nice to have them with us. My one sister's friend who died this last spring used to come stay with my mom when we needed an extra set of strong arms at night. Because her husband couldn't do the lifting because of his back at the time.

So it was an family affair for sure.

Just lots of good memories.

Donna