Hi, dllfo, welcome to NeuroTalk!
Boy, you sure have a full basket, I'm sorry for that. I'm also very sorry to learn about your daughter's MS and other family to boot. It's no fun and let's hope things are under control.
As for being banned from HB, that's considered a trophy around here! Our Mods are excellent, and happen also to be human!
Do take advantage of the nifty search engine in the blue tool bar above and feel free to jump in anywhere, this is a friendly, supportive community.
I hope to see you around.