It sounds like you will be a busy lady

Have you been able to find Dan work yet? That may help. It sounds like he is BPI like me... When I was working, I had an outlet for my energy, but when I stopped working, my BP got so much worse. If he had something to do to occupy himself, at least part-time, maybe he could calm down a little?
But at the same time, I understand it's hard to find a job if you can't calm down first...

I hope everything works out well for him soon, Donna