I so wish that your mother’s apology was cathartic

But I can understand why it was not. In families, it’s usually not just one wound that’s inflicted upon us by one or more people, and sometimes when we think of or talk about one incident, we can be overwhelmed by many (((HUGS)))

It happens to me. I try not to go too far down the rabbit hole, but sometimes it can’t be helped. I try to avoid confronting anyone tho because there are NO apologies in my family.

I hope that you are managing things better, and feeling better, soon. It must be hard with her still visiting

Love to you today Mari