Hi Kim,

I'm sorry to hear about your challenges. My wife told me one day that "it's really hard on me when you're in pain." It took me a few years to understand this because it's hard not to be self-centered when the pain is at a 10+

Perhaps having someone to talk with, a therapist, or psychiatrist would be able to help you and the patient. I'm sending healing thoughts out to both of you!

Peter