I hate shopping clothes if that makes you feel better... I know the feeling... I wear black rock tshirts all the time with jeans.... and when I have to go somewhere you know, like, with my "posh" aunts and cousins Im like in trouble.... it actually can drive me really upset and put in a bad mood specially because Im obese and clothes in Mexico are tiny ironically Oh well, hang in there.... Im sure you will find something very beautiful and comfy.