Hi nancyinnh
Welcome to NeuroTalk

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I suggest that you have a look at this thread
https://www.neurotalk.org/alcoholism...ml#post1274246 . It is intended for members who are at various stages of coping with alcohol-induced PN. You would be most welcome to post there. Other members could be able to offer you helpful ideas about how to try to support your b/f.
Best wishes.