What an ordeal! I'm so sorry that Dan is having a hard time now. He was doing so well!
I know it's not a convenient thing at all, but if possible, a day program is definitely more desirable than being kept inpatient. I've been inpatient twice... I'm glad that you guys have found a way to make it work. It sounds like Dale is really stepping up right now and really reducing the burden on you.
I really hope that between Dan going to the program, and Dale making sure he takes his meds right, he'll be feeling better soon
I hope that Derrick's burns are healing, and he's on the mend, too
Good luck with the paperwork for the car and getting it registered.