Yikes, robertsgirl, the stress alone would send me into a tailspin.
But, welcome to NeuroTalk, and I hope you will find some answers along with the benefits of a supportive and informed community.
Feel free to post a thread or jump in anywhere, we'll see you around.
Here's a link to the headaches forum, you may find a good launching place here:
http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/forumdisplay.php?f=32