It must be SOOOOOOOO FRUSTRATING for you to deal with Dan's wife's unrealistic expectations. I'm sure that you have had plenty of experience with parents like that at work, but this is your grandson (((HUGS)))

I hope that his stepmother's unrealistic expectations for him are not effecting his self-esteem in any way.

I agree with you that it is great that he IS graduating because they are moving him to a new grade for the achievements he has made, and that should be celebrated