Thanks Bizi,
The hardest part is that my son doesn't exactly realize that part
of the things he sees with Will I'm sure are being created because
of the need to make him succeed. But that is okay will keep working
on it. I know he has his own issues I always have. But I need them
to realize its part of life to need to do things a different way sometimes.

She informed me and Derrick he isn't going to his mom's this year.
And probably not anymore. Unless his grandmother is going. WHich
is totally okay with me. I've known for a while it was safe or good for
him. She has always kind of made her girls do the work, and even when
he was with her had her middle one taking care of him. That was why
I pushed so hard for him to stay with Devin and us. It has been much
better. She tells him, he needs to take care of her now. Well he is
to young to do that. He needs to have fun, just like the girls did.

I guess the youngest is tired of it now. She is 14 going to be 15 in November, the theory is she is staying in Indiana this summer and then
in the fall going to school somewhere up here. Even though her mom
doesn't know yet. I guess her other grandparents or her dad are taking
her in. I know her mom's mom would. But it wouldn't be the best so
I hope it works out.

I know the now 18 year old just graduated from high school, she had
moved out about 3 years ago into a friends family home. And now has
a boyfriend, and has had a job since she was 16.

So she is in good shape too. So I'm proud of both these two. We couldn't
really help the oldest she was just not that easy to help.
Donna