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Originally Posted by OhKay
It may not feel like it right now, but you made the right decision by calling to ask for the police department to do a welfare check. You now know that the sick neighbor is well enough to make her own decision not to go to the hospital, so whatever happens, you conscience is clear. You would not have had to call at all had the sick neighbor not kept texting you to come see her, while M was trying to keep you away without telling you why...
It sounds like they were playing games with you. But by doing the welfare check, you showed them you are not playing games. You did not call 911, so they can't say you overreacted.
I don't know why all these women decided to gang up on you all of a sudden, but usually being a good person does not, and should not, come with such heavy consequences. I don't know how they all found one another, but they deserve each other, and whatever lousy things are coming to them 
Stay in your apartment, don't answer the door, and ignore their calls and texts. If you see them in the hallways, walk on by. If they try to speak to you, keep waking. Hopefully if they don't get the reaction out of you they want, their antics will not be as fun for them, and they will stop harassing you- at least as much or as often (((HUGS)))
Hang in there.
Kay |
Thank you OhKay for your support and chatting with me about what happened last night.
I am a nice person, and bullies prey on nice people, so this could explain why I have been signaled out to be bullied.
After the police left, I felt immense relief and the pressure over what was going on was released. However, it has left me deflated/depressed and very sad for myself now. Another grouping of women I experienced extreme drama with that had negative consequences.
Your suggestion, OhKay, helped me with direction as to what to do. I needed that nudge to get things rolling. Before that, I didn't know what in the world was going on with those two nor what to do about it. You are correct, I did not call 911, it was only a welfare check, but I can imagine how their thoughts are swirling this morning. They now know I do not fool around nor will be pushed around as there are consequences for them, legal consequences. I am hoping they will give me a wide berth and leave me alone.
The only remaining issue is that they seem to think it's okay to let her cat go days without food and water, that's pretty telling.
So, sitting here behind closed curtains. My plan is to not accept phone calls, not respond to texts and to stay away from all community activities here. Hoping I can find outside interests soon.
Hoping the Lamictal kicks in soon to help regulate mood.
Blue