Bobby
I think you and Robert technically compliment each other when you fight.
I think he can't help the way he has to give that advice. So I'm glad you
have just given it back to him. I think he then gives you some back, just
to see if he can get a rise from you. But if I remember he is in his 70's right. Not if I'm wrong I'm going to feel bad. But oh well.
Now about Marci, I wouldn't feel bad about that. Just remember she technically works for you. Even if you have made her technically a friend. And its okay to let her know that you are the boss. If she can't handle that then its her problem not yours.
You are doing great keep it up.
Donna