Hi redtail,
So sorry you've had such a wretched day. I hope that the doctor has some answers for you on Friday. Only another day to go till then now. It sounds as if you have a lot on your plate right now. Feel free to vent away if you need. I hope tomorrow is a better day. Rest up and all the best for your Friday appointment. Let us know how you get on.
Here's a hug from the east coast.