Mrs BEar, I am so sorry that you are so stressed, I know how hard the emotions hit you when family argue. Especially arguing over children.
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My husband, her step-father was tough on my daughter. He did not believe ehr pain, found her difficult and even walked outside to the deck if she cme in. She was demanding, with the BP challanging, and lived in front of me.

Now that she is gone, I have a lot of emotions to work through over him.
I feel he must be glad she is gone, how could he live with himself being so mean to a child I gave birth too...why wasn't he understanding, after all he was a healthy adult not a child that has disabilities unable to use tools that adults would learn in a life time.

If it were me though, I would think the working relaionship is too close. That a part time job, maybe even from a placement with an agency like OVR or disabled workers would be healthier for all of you.

This takes a toll, each fight, each stress full comment and situation. Eventualy it will affect your health terribly!!!!!
I was drained from the stress, now, I have a wall emotionally I can not break down in my heart...
Things are Ok, but not healthy for me.

I am praying for you all.
You can tell your husband, at least he has a sone to see, feel, argue with and alive.....
TOLERANCE< ACCEPTANCE AND LOVE
Di