Yeah, I am consenting. It's just sometimes it feels like a game to me. Like we have to keep score or like pick who's turn it is for the focus, mostly being him, which in most cases is ok because I don't need it as much, but when I do, I really do! And it's always at an "inconvenient time". Well, from where I stand and what I've observed lately, he does something sweet getting me in the mood but by the time we have time, he upsets me again and I tense all up and close myself off. Right? Make sense? Maybe I should try telling him this (again, I'm pretty sure),...