I think maybe Nevsky has hit the nail on the head. I'd talk to hubby about whether this might be at least part of the reason. I can understand this because just recently my son Derrick went through something similar with an behavior therapist. It turned out he switched people, but it wasn't till he switched that we figured out the person doing it was working against his needs.

He has developmental disabilities and epilepsy. But is high functioning. So at times it's hard to realise that things aren't going the way they need to for him