View Single Post
Old 04-20-2020, 08:58 AM
tnthomas's Avatar
tnthomas tnthomas is offline
Member
 
Join Date: Oct 2011
Location: High Desert, Calif.
Posts: 156
10 yr Member
tnthomas tnthomas is offline
Member
tnthomas's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2011
Location: High Desert, Calif.
Posts: 156
10 yr Member
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Lightrail11 View Post
As fetishes go this one on the surface seems relatively harmless and innocuous. It's about how you are reacting and dealing with it that seems to me to be the issue. You use the words "freak and pervert". What's freakish about it really? Not to give TMI but my spouse of 40+ years and I enjoy sex that includes thongs and other flavors of erotic lingerie.

Seem to me the anxiety and depression sound like bigger issues than the thong fetish. I'd suggest seeing a therapist that works with patients with depression, most of them also can deal with sexual disorders. Sounds like you know this already but antidepressants are notorious libido killers, can cause ED and inability to ejaculate.

Best to you.
@Lightrail, Spot on!

@OP,
Fetishes are not uncommon and are NOT a sign of being a freak and pervert"!

Stop judging yourself and as Lightrail suggests- get with a therapist and get

yourself off the libido killing AD drugs!
__________________
3/1/2011- diagnosed with Peripheral Neuropathy
April 2012- Treated for Hepatitis C, achieved SVR
tnthomas is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote