I wish i could have said this as nice as you have. I have not been here long but i have certainly felt the judgement and have seen it with what i have read. To be honest i have been trying to fined a way to nicely say bye just because i feel that i do not fit in to the click. But at the same time i would hate to go because there have been a few who have been nice enough to answer some of my questions and reading others posts have helped as well. I think i well stick around a bit longer but just to read not to chat and see if others well read what you have said and change a little thank you once again for putting it out there and being able to do it nicely and to the point.