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Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: UK
Posts: 830
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Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: UK
Posts: 830
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Hey Daniella
I love your name! how are you?
We had abit of family therapy - I guess it's that my mum is a nurse and she just wants me to get better and I'm not! and it drives her nuts. She just wants me to be back to me and can't forgive herself that i'm not. She keeps thinking if she'd have kept me walking, if she'd have done this. If she'd have done that then would thinks have changed - but they haven't. It's just so, SO tough and people just don't realise how hard it is on caregivers.
It just doesn't help when you are the person on the other end of her being annoying.
Communication - I have tried asking nicely, asking my carer instead, having tantrums and all of that but she still gets so frustrated.
I wish she could understand what it's like to be in a body that just doesn't move any more. It's so so hard.
Much love
Frogga xxxxxxxxxxx
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