got a great response from my nephew. He says his family tells him all the time what I told him. He is trying to help himself. I told him he had a very hard childhood with two highly competitive older brothers. The oldest is definitely a self made millionaire but of course with a fantastic education Harvard and the middle one might be a billionaire with great education, Harvard and Harvard MBA. My mother infantilized Alec and thought he was retarded. I used to tell her no but he had those two brothers and was sensitive, He is now doing quite well as a financial analysis and sometimes appears on tv or in printed financial news.