Frogga,

AWWWW hon, I wish there was something I could do. If I was still in Germany I would hop a flight and pester you some. You should see your doc about it, if you haven't yet. You know...sometimes, as a mom, you get angry because you can't fix your kids. I'm sure she is also feeling guilty. (It's what moms do best lol). It's hard for us to discover that we can't cure all the ills with just a kiss and an ice cream. Just remember, we are your family, friends, and we have the best and biggest ears made just for listening.
Hugs and love
Mary