Leo,

If you dropped a 16 pound bowling ball on your son from only 1 foot, you would seriously injure him.

If he had the impact on you of a 16 pound bowling ball, he would be seriously injured.

Your issue is anxiety. It is taking over your rational thought process.

You are manifesting what I call Concussion Anxiety Syndrome.

Your fear of any head impact is causing flash backs of either a concussion you have experienced or that you learned/read about.

If instead of using rational thought to overcome your fear, you use irrational thought to increase your fear, you will pay a dear price.

Already, you irrationally claimed that your 2 year old, who likely weighs 25 to 35 pounds and has the rigidity of a stiff pillow, could have the impact of a solid, 16 pound bowling ball.

If you don't find a way to deal with this, it can paralyze your life.

I hope you can learn to think through these worries and fears and irrational thoughts and find the truth.