I agree with Bobby on lots of that. I personally don't think you have to
have an intimate life to be happy with the other person. Not that my
husband would agree. He has the disease that his male part curled up and
he can't get the erection anymore, and its very painful. He isn't happy.

But he has learned to live with it. I've never been a big person for that type of thing. Its very painful for me. So it really doesn't matter to me. He has had others, and I've known it in the past. But i'm always the one he is home with.

Right now he and Dan live around the corner from me, its hard to explain but most the time. I personally could care less. He says he is going to redo the house I'm living in and they will come back here. But I will believe it when I see it. I honestly see more of him now than I ever did. Because of all the houses. If I want him to do something or want something all i have to do is ask.

Its just different relationship. And we make it work. Its because at one point my Harmony and her other lived next door and her son was there. And Dan couldn't live here. So he had an empty house and moved in with him.

Because of a court order. They just stayed for now.

Donna