So let me start with a friendly hello-- this is my first post here! I have tried making an account a couple times some days earlier, but I always got an error when I did. Thank the heavens it finally worked tonight, though. Anyways, I've been reading through as many threads pertaining to my mother and her peripheral neuropathy as I could find. I've learned a lot in the time Mum and I been sitting here, waiting for answers from her doctor and the nurses and the neurologist, and I'm ever grateful for this place and the people in it. Allow me to get to the point, though:

Let's start with a brief (or my best attempt at a brief) history on my mom's life choices leading up to now. She had gastric bypass surgery sometime in 2006. She used to take B12 sublingually for this issue for maybe 5 years at best before eventually stopping-- and then she began drinking wine. It wasn't a lot very early on, but it sort of ramped up over the next 15 years she would do so. Eventually she was drinking around 5-7 glasses every night or so, sometimes more sometimes less. Then she started buying hard liquor, bourbon, what have you. That only lasted maybe 2 months. She went into the hospital about some 40 days ago for hyponatremia due to Lisinopril-HCTZ she was taking-- and she had it BAD. She told me she remembered the staff telling her that her sodium levels were in the double digits. But she came home alright from that after about 5-6 days in the hospital. Only problem was, she needed a walker to move around, and still exuded forgetfulness. No pain whatsoever, though. Nor tingling, either. She also had to have a 2L fluid restriction. The very first night she went in, she stopped having any alcohol though. And her abstinence continues to this night.

She went back into the hospital however no longer than a week later for really high blood pressure. I don't remember the specifics, but it was definitely around the severe hypertension range, and then she stayed again because her sodium levels dipped back down some. That got fixed up in 3-4 days, and she was good to be sent back home. And for the latter half of the day she got back, she even looked like she was getting better. One time she sat on the edge of her bed and crossed her leg over the other to eat some Taco Bell her brother and sister got her (her sister had flown in from FL to help me take care of her for 12 days). She had even sat down on the couch with them to talk, but she did need a little help getting back up. But by night time, she exhibited tingling/numbness and pain. And then it got bad. Bad enough to put her to tears. She couldn't sleep over it. And it was just her legs at this point. The memory issues came back too, and then her doctor went and put her on a 1L fluid restriction for a couple days. She was just crying about the pain and being thirsty at this point when she was awake, and it tore me up. She couldn't live like this. Eventually it was reverted back to 2L a few days later, and then she was given hydroxyzine to help with the pain-- which it didn't, at all.

And then there was the hot-and-cold issue she was having. Frequently me or her sister would come in and she'd ask us if we were hot or cold. We'd tell her no, and she'd mention how hot or cold she felt. Usually it was cold, but sometimes she was hot. We got her a heated mini-blanket and some ice packs. These past 18 days it's been entirely just cold/freezing or normal, though.

Finally, on the day her sister had to go back home (9th of March), she was given 100mg of gabapentin to take every 8h, and 1 capsule of vitamin B1 to take once a day. It didn't seem to really help a lot, though. And then a few days later, she finally got an EMG. We got called for the results 2 days after, and they said the words: my mother has peripheral neuropathy, caused by alcoholism.

It's been almost 10 days since we got that call, but I'm a little confused. I understand alcohol can cause it, but does it usually happen a few weeks after one already has stopped drinking? And so suddenly? Her symptoms seemed to develop overnight, really. She told me she experienced absolutely no pain or numbness until the night she got home. I figured, after doing as much looking up as I could (and after finding some stuff out via these forums), that it wouldn't hurt at all to put her on some B12 tablets. So we got Jarrows Methyl-B12, 5mg. She started taking it once a day on the 7 days ago, and only 2 days ago we upped it to 2 times a day. I try to give them to her on an empty stomach. Her gabapentin dosage was also slowly upped to 300mg twice a day and 100mg in the morning (it'll be 300mg 3x a day on the 29th), and my mom has finally noticed some relief from the pain both on and off the medication, but it does still flare up sometimes, usually at night.

Oh and a couple more snippits of info: I asked the neurologist when they called us on the 25th what her B12 levels were. They didn't specify the ratio or anything, but they did say it was 387. This was before she started taking the B12-- I don't know how long ago it was, if it was the first time she went into the hospital or what. But I'm assuming that's going by the pg/mL ratio. At least, it'd make some sense if it did. Additionally, she has VitD3 pills she had stopped taking some time ago too, I don't know if it was recommended to her or what, but I figured maybe she was depleted of that somewhat too by her alcohol abuse, so we talked and now she's back on that once a day. And her glucose levels were 116 too, so now we have to watch for that. Mom does not like the aspect of having to cut back on popsicles and soda. Some days I let her have 1 or 2 because I feel so bad for her.

So now at this point, I'm wondering what exactly else can we do to help her memory? She's been feeling a little better when the gabapentin has likely worn off, and somewhat better 2-3 hours after taking the 300mg pills. I know it's only been 7 days she's been on B12, and I would be lying if I said her memory hadn't improved at least a LITTLE since those 40 days ago. But I'm just worried-- I love my mom, to death and then some. I just want to make sure I'm doing everything I can to help her get better. Sometimes it still hurts bad, sometimes it spreads to her arms and hands, and sometimes she'll cry over the pain-- she doesn't want to be like this anymore. She's not a very rational person when it comes to coping with being in pain so often, she's admitted this and I know this through living with her all my life so far. And I do understand these things take time, I just want to know-- is there anything else she might need to be taking? Or is just down to patience and waiting, now? She hadn't been able to go up the stairs on her own before either since this happened, and the one person she was confident that could help her up them (and also drove her around) likely has COVID now. Yesterday, her PT had came by to help her do a little exercising. He even helped her take 2 steps up the stairs (mostly) on her own. And we have a little step that she practices stepping up and down on, one leg at a time.

And it wouldn't really be right to ignore the good that taking the B12 (likely) has brought: After mom began the B12 every morning, when her OT and PT came some days later they both noted how much better she was moving and were impressed. And then a couple days later my grandma came by and also spoke how she was glad to see my mom moving around more. I just want to know when, or if, I can expect her memory to at least improve to the point where I can trust her to take her own medications without getting sidetracked and/or forgetting minutes later. This isn't to say it happens every time, she has already had a few days where she takes her daily medications without me even needing to bring it up. I'll ask her and some days she'll say "yup", but I just...I don't know. Maybe I'm overthinking this, and we just need time?

Sorry for such an obnoxiously long post, I just wanted to get as much context in as I could in the hopes that maybe someone would be able to help me. I would really really appreciate any advice at all, even just confirmation that it'd just be time before maybe we saw more improvements in her memory and her PN. I want my mom to get better ASAP. She keeps talking about short-term care/assisted living or whatever it's called, and I'm really not against it even if I want to be the one watching over her and seeing her get better, but I'm just...I worry, you know? I worry maybe they won't give her the B12 she might need, that maybe they give her sugary stuff she should cut back on instead...even if their entire job is making sure she's getting better.

Either way, thank you for reading this absurdly long post of mine. I appreciate it, even if you might not know how to help me...