Bizi

I believe Jeff thinks if he encourages you to drink you will not think
your an alcoholic. He just doesn't want to be the only one drinking
at times. I think it might be that he needs to figure out a way to
accept the fact like you have that you have a problem. And then figure
out a way to help you. That he can accept. So maybe he needs to
go to a class, and I'm afraid he might need you to accompany him
to the class. I know that sounds like a weird idea. But maybe its like the
way those of us with family with an family member with things like bi-polar,
anxiety, depression, and other things. Have to figure out how to accept this
to learn how to help that person first. So that they can accept it too.

In this case Bizi, you have accepted your first issues Bi-polar, now you have
accepted you are alcoholic, now he just needs to catch up with you.

Donna