Bizi, is confusing Derrick with Will my grandson, When they started
working so hard to get his behavior under a better control. But also
were starting to get strict on what he eats and drinks it made it
much harder for me to take him places. And so for the ease of
my mental health and his family. Plus at that point he was going to
his other grandmother's every other weekend, (his mothers mom)
so it was easier to just let him do that. They thought they could
just let me have him instead one weekend. But I didn't want to take
his time away from her.

Anyway, I don't go down there to the house much, because with his
adhd he will interrupt and get excited I'm there. And Meluvja is not
one to like that. Reminds him he is to talk when talked to not when
an adult is talking to others. So he is made to wait, and at times its
really hard on me. So I quit going down. And I just started waiting till
they ask me to take him. But even with that I had to watch what
we ate. But it was much easier he ate what we got.

He eats most everything now, which makes it much better. And its honestly
what we all want.

Derrick I see pretty much when I want, and he wants. And yes, his background
check would have gotten done. He was to call his job coach today or
get a appointment, which probably would have been today. She told him
when he asked on Saturday it was fine for me to help him.

I was not surprised she wanted to help him it wasn't easy for him to read it.
Donna