Susie1,

You have a task to do. Accepting your limits is just the start. Learning how to move forward within those limits is quite another. You can't start the second until you have done the first.

The support group should offer you good opportunities to see how others accepted the new person and moved on.

I am trying to get a private time with our pastor at church. Due to pre-existing neurological and autoimmune health conditions, Covid hit him hard with encephalitis. It is just like a serious concussion. Lights, sounds, memory, the works. He is getting no help to understand how to move forward.

It is very difficult to do this alone. We need others to get on board with us. Take family or friends to support group if you can. They need to hear these same comments and see others with similar limitations.

My best to you.