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Just take care of yourself honey
You can't save, heal,help, give therapy to , everyone else .You have enough on your plate.
Eventually everyone will find their own way ..I am sure we all have some of these issues with our family members to some degree . But we cannot save the world .We have to take care of ourselves first and somehow when we do that really well - the others seem to fall in line a lot better.
It won't happen overnight but it will happen - now you just be good to YOU
That is the most important thing to do right now
Peace
GnP