thanks so much. I am so worried. i wonder how much a person can take at that age. that i can't mention to her. i really marvel at her. i mentioned what great care she showed for her ex husband of 35 years who didn't die that long ago at about 96 and with whom she had three children. he remarried for 8 years and the woman got 8 million. zeynep who asked for the divorce only got 4 million.