Hi Scarlata and welcome to NeuroTalk. I'm sorry for all that you are going through.
I see you've been given some very good links. You may want to go to the homepage of NeuroTalk and browse through the forums. There is a Bipolar, ADD and all kinds of information. Here is a link to all of the forums.
http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/index.php
You're really between a rock and a hard place! Doesn't her university have student health care? It should be a part of her fees for college. Of course, getting her to go there is a different story. Insurance is so expensive.

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