I have been given a provisional dx of some sort of dementia. My children dont want to hear about it as it doesnt fit into their plans. I live alone with 20 hrs of home care per week under Home Bound Waiver. I am losing ground. Increased depression. Decreased executive function. Poor personal care etc. I have very little money and no assets. I am scared to death of ending up in a community based, franchised snake pit. Are there options?