Thank you Lara. Yes. This is the same guy. I truely don't believe the staff or anyone else wants to deal with the person in question. I've never come across anyone in my life like him. He is so intimidating to everyone. What ever personality disorder he has is grandious. He is also brilliant in intelligence, and knows how to keep himself out of trouble. If he hits me I can definitely call the police,but I don't want it to come to that. I know that he must be hurting and in pain from things in the past. How to get him help without getting him in trouble is the question. I am hurting from the insults during his temper tantrums. He doesn't show any signs of empathy, compassion, or remorse. He hurts me in a.place where I'm suppose to be safe. He is always talking to the Lady in the system in charge of the house. I think he's lying about me behind my back because of something that he said to me when he was angry. Sooner or later this activity will catch up to him. BF