I was just sitting here thinking about what I'd do in the same situation. Sheesh... hardly something one can stay in denial about for too long although it's understandable. I can also understand that the mother might be in denial if she's been told... that is IF she's been told. Maybe she's not be told about her diagnosis yet??
If you can't get your friend to understand then I'd probably contact one of the Alzheimer's Disease Associations and ask for some advice from your perspective as a friend trying to help out.
I thought there would be something on these sites specifically regarding "denial" but I'm so tired and having trouble finding what I want. If I do find something specific later, then I'll post it as well.
http://www.caregiver.org/caregiver/j...jsp?nodeid=571
Family Caregiver Alliance
Alzheimer's Disease, Early Stage
Some great information on that site above. The info. on that one page seems specifically tailored for the person who has just been diagnosed rather than a relative, but there is a section on driving which might be good to give to your friend. Also some contact resources and there down the bottom of that page.
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Driving: Some states have laws requiring physicians to report individuals with a diagnosis of AD to the Department of Motor Vehicles. The intent is to ensure that you and those around you are safe. If you continue driving, ongoing evaluation of your driving abilities and ongoing consultation with your physician are critical. It is also wise to pay attention to the suggestions of those close to you; they may recognize changes in your driving ability before the changes become apparent to you.
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http://www.caregiver.org/caregiver/j...jsp?nodeid=989
Caregiver's Guide to Understanding Dementia Behaviors
There's also a Caregiver's Forum here at NeuroTalk. Perhaps if you copy your post over there as well, someone else will see your message and have some advice for your situation there.
http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/fo...aysprune=&f=56
Caregiver's Forum - NeuroTalk