Hi Melinda and welcome to NeuroTalk. I have fibromyalgia as well and the same bladder problems as described, but I have no clue if there is link.
You might also want to check out the Hyster Sisters site. I noticed there that a lot of the women have fibromyalgia as well. NOT that I would want to see you go elsewhere because we have fibro people here as well. Here is a link to Hyster Sisters.
http://www.hystersisters.com/
Again welcome to NT. I'm glad you joined us.