oh sue, i do not mind at all when you vent. whatever is wrong with your sister is something she will have to work out. sounds like she thinks the grass is greener everywhere she is not! it is rough sometimes to see the choices people we love make as adults. i'm sorry for that for you. she may get over it as she gets older but you have enough to worry about with you and hubby so just pray and let God work on it. that is what i do, that way i feel i am helping somehow.
i am very happy to see you are moving soon and getting some furniture too. see, you had a good outlook and things turned out okay. and now we can say," i can do anything for 10 days!!!!!". that sounds easy now.
and your pain is better too. you are doing super!!! a pain level of zero is just wonderful.
so the party was good and you had kids all around. it does not get better than that.
love, you 'hip' sister, Joan