hi Melinda - I agree wondering what your GYN says and that 'always get second opinions for surgery'. I'm not a doctor, but a holistic health practitioner and see many patients with FM and many bladder issues. Holistically speaking, the urinary/bladder meridian is involved whenever there are these type os symptoms....FM or not! An acupuncturist or one who is trained in meridian therapy could address this for you. Do some homework - symptoms are a manifestation of blocked chi (energy) through the meridians that nourish the organs. Certainly beats surgery to try some alternative approaches. If you can find an advanced massage therapist, trained in helping FM, another good route to take. blessings! Linda in CA