A fun thing you can do to stay cool, not spend money and laugh a lot is to create a Remember Book, you can just use a notebook. We did this last year with friends. We remembered candies we had as children that are no longer made. Radio and tv shows from childhood, games we use to play etc. It help to bring back memories that are stored , but we have not thought about in a long time. I think we thought of 20 some candies, and no we aren't that old Anyway, this is something you can add to each visit, and your family will enjoy reading years from now. Spice it it and add your old boyfriends to the list or not ENJOY Carose.