I would also suggest you go see the neurologist or doctor. Are you having trouble with dizziness, or fatigue. Or anything else other than the outburst toward your husband. I can tell you why its your husband that you have them with though. Its because you feel safe having them with him, you know that he understands and he is okay with you having them to a degree.

And that he will let you blow off steam and you will then be able to cool off and slow down and then be calm again. But the thing is it will start to go to other people that you wont be able to control who you have them with.

There are probably little signs of headaches in your head that you don't realize you are having when you have these little things too. And pressure behind your eyes or things like this. I would start to keep a like diary of changes that are happening to make you feel things.

So maybe you can feel the changes that are happening so you can explain them.

Donna