Bob...Rant, rave all you want to!! We all understand. The tireder I get, the more fumbly I am. So you just rant away. Does anyone understand???!! ... Probably only the group of people who read this and shake their heads that yes, ....they understand.

I truely honestly believe that people CAN'T understand unless they suffer it themselves. I just went thru an event with my husband. We discovered that he has an exceptionally low pain level. After back surgery he really didn't require pain medication. That is amazing! It is no wonder that he truly doesn't understand my pain. And it may be so with your wife.

I'm just so sorry you are having to go thru this.

Billye